Pastor, I Think I’m Gay

Who would have thought just a few years ago that we would face such moral decay and decline like today? The sexual conflict has caused confusion, compromise, and debate in our society. Even worse, the debate has spilled over into our churches. I must confess that, until recently, I had no idea how to deal with those struggling in this area. Fortunately, …

3 Things You Should Never Say to the Unmarried

Try being an attractive, outgoing, unmarried adult in a modern church and not have your singleness as a topic of conversation. It is nearly impossible! You will find yourself either trying to justify your singleness or trying to avoid the matchmakers in the church. Why is it like this? It is because our church culture has nearly idolized marriage. Most …

I Am Not a Heterosexual

Hello, I am a Christian pastor, and I am not a heterosexual.  Those are often my first words to a person who is in the gay community. It is fascinating to see the surprise in their eyes (and the walls that crumble down). Most people have labeled themselves long before I meet them. Many choose to place upon themselves the label of “gay” …

Dealing with Guilt From Sexual Sins

There is a barrier that often stands between the child of God and the Heavenly Father, disturbing a perfect relationship. It is a hindrance to many people who have gone deep into sexual sin. Sadly many are plagued by it, yet do not know how to deal with it. It is called guilt. First of all, let us understand that …

Christian Bullies & Sexual Impurity

There Is No Excuse for Being a Bully In Luke 4, Jesus preached in the synagogue on the Sabbath day. What He said was amazing, but what He didn’t say was even more astonishing. He stood before a whole group of well-educated Jewish theologians and quoted from Isaiah 61. Jesus said: The Spirit of the Lord is upon me, because …

My Child Say He's Gay: What Should I Do?

Help! My Child Just Told Me He is Gay

Many parents are faced with this declaration and have no idea what to do. Their faith leaves them totally guessing as to how they should react to such an announcement. Do they abandon their child? Do they abandon their beliefs? Both of these are extremes that parents often take. A parent needs to know how they should respond to their …